Can you promote in r/surrogate?
A nurturing community for discussion of Surrogacy. This includes Surrogates, Intending Parents, the curious and Agencies. This is a place for sharing experiences, offering support, and forming bonds. Whether you're new to surrogacy or have walked this path before, you'll find understanding and guidance here. Join us to celebrate and navigate the unique journey of surrogacy together.
The short answer
Participate as a community member, disclose your agency/founder role up front, focus on helpful non-promotional answers and support rather than pitching or soliciting.
What works here
- Answer questions and share experience
- Participate as an agency if identified
- Provide support, resources or factual information
What gets posts removed
- Direct advertising, solicitations or lead-gen
- Fundraising or 'soft begging' posts
- Spammy repetitive posts or overt sales pitches
- Posting AI-generated content without disclosure
Where this comes from
View the current official rules on RedditAgencies must identify themselves
Sidebar explicitly welcomes agencies but requires identification, so vendor/founder participation is permitted only with clear disclosure.
No Spam
The rules ban spam, which implies promotional/soliciting behavior is not allowed.
No Gofundmes/soft begging
Fundraising and soft solicitations are explicitly prohibited, indicating the community restricts solicitous commercial asks.
Community focus
Public description emphasizes support, sharing experiences and discussion rather than commercial activity.
No AI content
AI-generated posts/comments are banned, so avoid posting such content as a vendor or founder.
Official rules of r/surrogate
- 01No Spam
- 02No Gofundmes, No Soft Begging, No Scams
- 03No AI Generated Posts or Comments
- 04Journalists must identify themselves and their publication
- 05Agencies must identify themselves
- 06No anti-surrogacy activism
Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 24, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.
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