Can you promote in r/limerence?
Limerence is a term invented by the psychologist Dorothy Tennov for her book "Love and Limerence", to describe the state of being madly in love or intensely infatuated when reciprocation is uncertain. This sub is a community of people who self-identify as being in the state of limerence and are looking for support and strategies to deal with it.
The short answer
Do not promote or pitch products/services; if you want to help, contribute as a community member offering non-commercial support and general advice without mentioning or linking your product/company.
What works here
- post/comment about limerence experiences or coping strategies
- refer to neutral educational resources in the sub wiki/sidebar
- engage kindly in discussion (if you meet karma and post-length requirements)
What gets posts removed
- promotional posts, sales pitches, or posts designed to drive engagement to paid products
- offering coaching/paid services without moderator pre-approval
- posting from throwaway/new accounts that don't meet karma minimum
- linking to your product/company or soliciting leads
Where this comes from
View the current official rules on RedditNo Advertising or Sales
Posts designed to drive engagement to products or services for sale are not permitted, including coaching services not pre-approved by moderators.
Community purpose
Subreddit is a support group focused on understanding and coping with limerence, not a marketplace.
Minimum posting requirements
Must meet minimum karma to post, which limits promotional account use.
Content constraints
Posts must encourage discussion about limerence and be original; short/low-effort content is removed.
No AI / quality policy
AI content is disallowed, indicating moderators enforce content authenticity/quality.
Official rules of r/limerence
- 01Minimum Karma Required
- 02Post must encourage discussion about limerence, not general requests for relationship advice.
- 03Be civil, kind and encouraging. Language must not include threats of violence to oneself or others.
- 04No reposts
- 05No memes (Unless it is Meme Monday)
- 06No non-professional diagnosis of mental health issues.
- 07No pseudoscience or information that contradicts those of medical professionals.
- 08No promotion of self-harm
- 09No Advertising or Sales
- 10No AI content
Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 24, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.
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