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Can you promote in r/gayfriendfinder?

Welcome to r/Gayfriendfinder, a safer space to meet gay friends! With platforms such as Grindr which leave many of us feeling frustrated, look no further than Gayfriendfinder! Remember to show people your personality and what makes you, you!

The short answer

Do not promote your product or company; if you want to engage, reply as a regular community member without links or solicitations and keep messages focused on helping the individual find friends.

What works here

  • participate as a regular user
  • give friendly, substantive personal advice about friendship
  • follow community posting requirements (25-char title, 2–3+ sentence body)

What gets posts removed

  • advertising, self-promotion, or product pitches
  • sharing links, contact info, or recruiting customers
  • asking for leads, surveys, or commercial outreach

Where this comes from

View the current official rules on Reddit

No advertisements or self-promotion

Rule explicitly forbids advertising OnlyFans, Social Media, Discord, Subreddit, etc., which covers vendor/founder promotion.

Friend-finding focus

Subreddit is dedicated to finding friends and asks posts stay on that theme, limiting commercial or recruiting activity.

No personal contact details

Rules ban posting personally identifiable details like Discord IDs, phone numbers, email addresses, and social media links, preventing lead capture.

Official rules of r/gayfriendfinder

  1. 01Write posts that contain substance, telling others the kinds of things that interest you.
  2. 02Be nice, be kind, and be helpful.
  3. 03No sexual solicitations or sexual content of any kind, including FWB posts
  4. 04If you have an issue contact the mod team.
  5. 0518+ Only
  6. 06This is a friend-finding sub.
  7. 07No advertisements or self-promotion
  8. 08Do not include any personally identifiable details in posts or comments.
  9. 09All images must be SFW/no disingenuous or thirst-trap posts.
  10. 10No Spam.
  11. 11Find other ways to describe yourself other than sexual positions or descriptions of your genitals

Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 24, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.

Read the Intoru research and correction methodology.

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