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Can you promote in r/gaydating?

The international 100% clean SFW place for gay guys to find love! ❤️🌍 This is a safe space specifically for those looking to find someone to date, a relationship, and hopefully love! 👨🏽‍❤️‍👨🏼 Those seeking “fun”, “hookups”, “sugar” arrangements, visas, friends/chats, selling of pictures/videos, sharing NSFW images may be banned ❌ To avoid having your post removed, be sure to read all of the rules before participating 📖

The short answer

Do not mention or promote your product/company; if you want to engage, participate only as a regular user following posting rules and avoid any commercial content or links.

What works here

  • Making regular dating posts that follow the title/word/age/location/photo rules
  • Commenting as a normal community member without commercial intent

What gets posts removed

  • Posting about a product, service, app, survey, or recruiting customers
  • Sharing links, monetized accounts, or directing users to external commercial profiles
  • Using posts/comments to solicit money or promote commercial ventures

Where this comes from

View the current official rules on Reddit

Promotion/Financial Gain rule

Rule explicitly bans posting for karma farming, selling, seeking money, financial support, or any promotion (including directing to OnlyFans/X).

Sidebar public description

States posts seeking selling of pictures/videos or NSFW will be removed and users may be banned, indicating strict moderation against commercial/sex-related promotion.

Account/post quality rules

Requirements for post format, age, account age, and content length emphasize this is a space for genuine dating posts, not commercial outreach.

Official rules of r/gaydating

  1. 01English please!
  2. 02You must be single, and 18+
  3. 03Post title must follow the correct format (refer to pinned post for full details)
  4. 04Accounts must be at least 7 days old to post
  5. 05Post once every 3 days
  6. 06No looking for friendship or “chats”
  7. 07No NSFW/offensive/bigoted/hateful content
  8. 08Post must contain a minimum of descriptive or otherwise relevant 50 words in its body
  9. 09No personal info
  10. 10Any images must be of you and show you clearly
  11. 11No shirtless, filters, AI, masks, etc. on pics
  12. 12Create posts here / no cross-posting
  13. 13Promotion/Financial Gain/Solicitation
  14. 14Ban Circumvention

Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 24, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.

Read the Intoru research and correction methodology.

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