Can you promote in r/dating_advice?

this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage

The short answer

Do not mention or promote your product/company; participate as a helpful community member answering questions without links or solicitation.

What works here

providing on-topic dating advice in posts/comments
joining community chat (Discord) as a user
linking only if a moderator-approved resource (rare) or listed in sidebar

What gets posts removed

posting product launches, demos, surveys, or recruitment
sharing external links, articles, videos, or social handles
asking users to DM or otherwise soliciting leads

Where this comes from

View the current official rules on Reddit

Spam/Advertising/ Solicitation ban

Rule explicitly forbids spam, outside links, self-promotion, personal social handles, and solicitation for DMs.

No external articles or video links

Sidebar states no articles or video links; spam will result in immediate ban.

Subreddit focus on personal advice

Public description and about text emphasize specific dating-situation advice and not general debates or hookups, implying promotional posts are off-topic.

Official rules of r/dating_advice

01No hate-speech, personal attacks, or harassment
02Sex related Topics
03Spam / Advertising/ Solicitation of Dms
04Pickup Artist / Red pill language /MGTOW
05Off-topic / Low-effort
06Self-pity
07Repetitive topic
08Generalizations & Gender war
09Body Count

Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 24, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.

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