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Can you promote in r/cf4cf?

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The short answer

Engage as an individual offering helpful, relevant responses; avoid promotional language, links, or soliciting customers and disclose any affiliation briefly if it’s relevant.

What works here

  • Reply as a person offering help or to join an event
  • Share location/interests and personal details relevant to the post
  • Mention affiliation for transparency (brief, not promotional)

What gets posts removed

  • Posting links to your product, company, website, or social/dating profiles
  • Advertising, soliciting customers, recruiting, or posting commercial offers
  • Making posts that are not dating/friend ads (polls, surveys, recruitment)

Where this comes from

View the current official rules on Reddit

No links to profiles or services

Rule explicitly bans links to social/dating profiles or anything advertising yourself or services, with insta/permaban consequences.

Community focus on dating/friend ads only

Rule requires all posts to be dating/friend ads and disallows polls/questions/other non-ad content.

Personal/contextual sharing encouraged

Sidebar asks posters to share location, interests, photos, and welcomes events/gatherings, suggesting personal engagement is acceptable.

Harassment and low-effort content disallowed

Rules prohibit harassment and low-effort posts, so commercial outreach that feels spammy would be poorly received and removed.

Official rules of r/cf4cf

  1. 01Childfree Only
  2. 02Don't be a dick
  3. 03No harassment of ANY sort
  4. 04No links to social or dating app profiles, or other services.
  5. 05No unsolicited NSFW photos
  6. 06All posts must be dating/friend ads; no polls, questions, etc.
  7. 07Please use Post and User flairs!
  8. 08Make an effort
  9. 09Reposting and Spam

Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 23, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.

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