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Can you promote in r/breakups?

"Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, heartbreak makes you wiser"

The short answer

Do not post promotional content or links; if you want to participate, contribute helpful, non-commercial support and request moderator permission before sharing products or communities.

What works here

  • Provide empathetic, on-topic support and advice
  • Mention your affiliation only for transparency if directly relevant and not promotional (after checking with mods)
  • Use approved/allowed threads if mods create specific promo opportunities

What gets posts removed

  • Posting links to your product, service, community, or commercial venture
  • Using comments/posts to solicit customers, leads, surveys, or signups
  • Promotional language, pitches, or repeatedly mentioning your company

Where this comes from

View the current official rules on Reddit

No promotion without permission

The sidebar explicitly says you may not promote your own communities or commercial ventures without prior permission.

External links restricted

All outside links go to the mod queue for review and 'No external links' is stated, so link posting is restricted.

Support-focused community

Subreddit is framed as a support community and emphasizes on-topic, supportive content, making commercial outreach inappropriate.

Official rules of r/breakups

  1. 01Do not mock anyone's past relationship or what they did in that relationship.
  2. 02Actually, don't mock anyone.
  3. 03No racism or sexism.
  4. 04No advocating violence.
  5. 05No discussion of revenge.
  6. 06No encouraging suicide.
  7. 07Misogyny, misandry, homo/transphobia are not welcomed here.
  8. 08Please do not argue with other posters.
  9. 09Any link that you post must be related to recovering from breakups (no memes).
  10. 10Outside links will be reviewed before posted.
  11. 11Please do not feed the trolls.
  12. 12Please Stay on Topic
  13. 13No long solid walls of text, please
  14. 14Images

Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 23, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.

Read the Intoru research and correction methodology.

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