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Can you promote in r/bpdlovedones?

"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).

The short answer

Do not promote products, services, surveys, or recruit customers; if you can help, reply only as a supportive, non-commercial peer without mentioning your company or product.

What works here

  • Provide empathetic, on-topic support as a non-BPD loved one
  • Share reputable third-party resources already on-topic (without self-promotion)
  • Use PM to contact a user only for personal conversation (not solicitation)

What gets posts removed

  • Posting links to your product, book, podcast, GoFundMe, or commercial site
  • Requesting interviews, surveys, recruiting participants, or research links
  • Claiming professional/expert status or promoting services

Where this comes from

View the current official rules on Reddit

No promotion/advertising/monetization

Rule explicitly forbids posting links to work, GoFundMe, books, podcasts, YouTube or other promotion.

No research requests

Rule explicitly bans interview/survey/research requests and links to form builders.

Participation limits

Only loved ones without BPD may participate; people with BPD or who claim Cluster B diagnoses are banned.

No experts/claims

Rule instructs contributors not to state they work or volunteer in mental health (no expert claims).

Safe-space moderation

Sub is a support forum/safe space with strict moderation and rules enforcement.

Official rules of r/bpdlovedones

  1. 01Who can participate here
  2. 02No sexism, racism, homophobia, or bigotry
  3. 03No references to BPD related subs
  4. 04No bullying, rude, or invalidating behavior
  5. 05PII and throwaway accounts
  6. 06No experts
  7. 07Discord, group chats, and meetups
  8. 08No promotion, advertising, or monetization
  9. 09No research requests
  10. 10No stereotypes or nonsensical BPD traits
  11. 11Acceptable content
  12. 12No talk of killing yourself
  13. 13No being rude with the mods

Based on the community’s official rules, analyzed June 23, 2026. Rules change; the official rules page is always the source of truth.

Read the Intoru research and correction methodology.

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